For as long as I can remember, I have been fascinated with abandoned buildings. But this fascination always came with a side of sadness…a melancholy feeling of sorts. The thought of something that was once so vibrant and full of life left to stand in silence, all alone and no longer serving its intended purpose would make me feel a longing deep within my soul. Looking back, I can also add another word to those melancholy feelings, hopelessness. I felt that the purpose and plan for these places had passed them by somehow. They had been created for a single purpose, and once that purpose had played out they were no longer needed. I didn’t have the ability to cast a new vision for these places, to see them in a new light. Beauty from ashes…
I turned 51 in August. As a little girl, I saw my life going in a very specific way, I had a plan and a purpose, and those words were all singular. There was no backup plan, I didn’t need one. To say life hasn’t turned out quite like I planned is an understatement. After 25 years of marriage, I found myself starting over with my 3 children. I begin to question everything in my life. My purpose, my plan, had it somehow passed me by? Beauty from ashes….
It was during this time that the way I looked at life began to change. I felt a spark of excitement, something I hadn’t felt in a very long time. I was not hopeless. My purpose, my plan was being reshaped, remodeled and recast. I began to see the beauty in what was and also the beauty in what was to be. But more importantly, I began to see the beauty in the process; the very messy, uncomfortable at times, unable to be planned process. And I fell in love with my life, with all the unexpected twist and turns, the imperfect edges and corners, the amazing chaos. Beauty from ashes….
As I began to fall in love with my life, I began to see things with different eyes. Eyes that truly saw beauty in the broken and abandoned, through the lens of hope. It was during this time that I picked up a camera for the first time and began to explore my city and photograph what I saw. I began to see that the buildings that I remembered from the past, the ones that were abandoned, whose purposes and plans had passed them by, were, in fact, being given new life. There were warehouses that had once been central hubs of commerce and community that had stood empty and forgotten for years being given a new lease on life. What appeared hopeless and abandoned became loft apartments, cafes, medical clinics, office buildings, the sky was the limit. All it took were vision casters, people who not only remembered the beauty of the past but saw beauty in what could be. And it didn’t have to be what it had once been. There was a good strong foundation, the buildings had good bones. With a little imagination and a lot of elbow grease, it could become something completely different and perhaps even more beautiful than it had been before. There were some buildings that had been neglected too long, the destruction and the damage to the original structure was beyond repair and had to be torn down. But even in these cases, there was hope. The land the building had stood on was still a good solid foundation and a new building was built there. Many of the pieces of the old building were able to be salvaged and found new life in their new home. As I looked through my camera lens all around me I saw hope, new life, and fresh vision. Beauty from ashes…
I realized that I could learn a lot from the abandoned buildings that I loved. I could learn lessons of hope, perseverance, and patience. That the scars from being neglected and forgotten for so long could become beautiful when seen through the lens of hope. That a good strong foundation, many times the part of the building that you never even see until a storm passes through, that foundation is more important than the beautiful parts of the building that you can see. There is beauty in the hidden part because a strong foundation represents a strength of character that doesn’t fade away like outward beauty. I learned that people, just like buildings, can have many different purposes and plans throughout their lives. That all the different purposes and plans are important in creating the rich history of the building and the person. But most importantly I learned to view things that appear hopeless and damaged beyond repair not with a heart full of sadness and mourning of what was, but with eyes of hope, anticipating what is to come. Truly Beauty from ashes.
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a season for everything…..a beautiful bowl that once held family favorite recipes, might now have a tiny crack but still holds a beautiful arrangement……a young mother busy with hectic everyday life, trying her best to raise good, happy, responsible children while her whole life is consumed with them. Suddenly, after a brief period of not feeling needed, the now older mom is blessed with more love than she ever thought possible from her grandchildren…….again, a season for everything. ❤️
This is one of my favorite articles you’ve ever written. It’s just beautiful, just like you! ♥️
Inspiring! I too have felt this pull from abandoned things… I am sure I find them beautiful because I see the beauty in myself (an abandoned thing). Really enjoyed your post!
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Latrice-That is exactly how I feel! Isn’t it wonderful to be able to see our own beauty and the beauty in the most unexpected places?! Thank you for taking the time to comment!
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